Sex, Lies, and Faking it! Using EFT to End the Deception love relate cvr

Dear EFT Community,

EFT Universe trainers Alina Frank and Craig Weiner write in with the top five fears and excuses they hear women give for cheating themselves out of a truly fulfilling sexual relationship. The reasons are rooted in negative emotions that can be cleared with EFT.

-EFT Universe


by Alina Frank and Craig Weiner, DC

Making love can be one of the most joyous expressions of your connection to your partner. It also gives you the ability to experience the powerful and vibrant flow of Chi through the meridian channels.The energies that flow through the meridians are familiar to us that use and teach EFT. The free flow of energy during orgasm, according to Taoists, has the capacity to have you feel the reflection of the very best of your body's internal energies. Other reasons to enjoy a happy satisfying sex life include the lowering of your biological age (the age your body really is as opposed to the age according to your birthdate) by 7 years, lowering your blood pressure, and regulation of female mood altering hormones.

If this is all true then why is it that upwards of 70-80% of women still fake it?

Here are some of the most common reasons I’ve have heard women in my practice reveal why they fake orgasm and how we used EFT to end the cycle of deception.

1. Fear of coming across as rejecting their partner. Often women will create the worst case scenarios in their minds about how she/he will feel. Rehearsing the conversation in your mind and tapping on the fears will ease the discomfort. The truth is that explaining what you want and need to satisfy you,  stated in a loving manner, works wonders for intimacy and deep connection which in turn leads to better sex.  

2. Fear that they are taking too long. This is a common fear for women and one that is easily released through tapping. Often the only thing that is needed is a few tapping rounds on, "Even though I am afraid I am going to take too long again..." Stopping the mind chatter with EFT way before you get in bed proves to be very effective.

3. Fear that their partner is about to leave. In a study conducted by a team of psychologists at Columbia University, women who were doubting their partner's fidelity were shown to have faked it more often. The fear of infidelity doesn't just come out of thin air but from experiences in your past. Write down all the times you were betrayed and tap on them. It's not only the Law of Attraction that will attract such events but that by behaving in a distrusting manner, you might actually drive your partner to stray.

4. Many women have a belief that once a man reaches ejaculation sex is over. Wrong! Tap on any insecurities about discussing this with your partner if this is indeed the way it's always been done in your relationship.

5. Social pressure to have the big "O". Some women feel that unless they are swinging from the chandeliers and able to reach orgasm regularly, there must be something profoundly wrong with them. A recent Time magazine article proclaimed that 1 in 4 women are frigid. There are different categories of anorgasm including arousal disorders and sexual pain disorders. In my practice I have worked with all of these quite successfully but sometimes it does take longer to reverse than other times.   

All of these ways that women cheat themselves out of a gratifying healthy sexual relationship are rooted in negative emotions that can be healed with the use of EFT.

Alina Frank and Craig Weiner, DC

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